My theme for 2009 is Generosity. This theme incorporates multiple aspects that I’d like to focus attention on while accessing an underlying quality that has been suppressed. As a child, I was generous. Until my parents caught on, I would often give away my toys when I saw how happy they made someone. So, in a sense, I am reclaiming that genuine aspect of myself – one that was truly mine as an innocent child.
So what does generosity equate to, in my life?
Generous to myself
- My body, through fitness, nutrition, general health
- My spirit, through spiritual practice and growth, and connection to others
- My mind, through learning and playing
- Acceptance through patience, understanding, and compassion
- Giving time, attention, and care through being helpful and considerate during any interactions
- Creative expressions of gratitude (for example, submitting positive comment cards with an employee’s name – it may help someone get a raise!)
- Recognize where there is value to me
- Practice “smart generosity” – "feed" areas I want to grow
How do I see a year of generosity changing my life?
I will experience more joy. Generosity feels good as it recognizes, fosters, and celebrates the connection we have with others.
It will be easier to recognize that what I receive may be an opportunity for another to practice generosity. That will help me gladly accept favors and gifts from others without a feeling of obligation.
I will no longer see myself as someone who is struggling to get on with life after a divorce, but someone who has an enormous potential to assist humanity’s evolution toward enlightenment.
If I live with a generous heart, I am giving the universe what I would be happy to receive.
